I Am So Confused!

Okay readers, I really have a dilemma.  I love this blog;  how could I not, it's my baby.  But, I've outgrown it.  And I'm really confused about moving it.  I mean I am really, really, really on fence, and want someone else's input.  I've actually started two difference blogs on wordpress, but, well, I'm not real thrilled with either one, design-wise.  I just don't know what I want.  I take that back; I know how I want it to look, just not how to get there. 

I want a blog that is simple in design; I think I'm a minimalist (I think that's what it's called).  I want something sophisticated, but feminine, but quirky and fun.  And I would really love the ability to have tabs, or pages (multiple posts listed by subject) which is something I don't think I can get with blogspot.

My blog as diversified, or branch out, or I would like it to, into different directions.  I want to include posts about my life with my mom and some DIY projects I've done, or am planning to do.  I also want to continue with the recipes. 

But, some of my favorite blogs are on blogspot.  And this is my baby, my first born.  It grew up on me, and I don't know what to do!

I really think I need to move.  Help me ... I'm so confused!